Be Your Own Personal Cheerleader

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As many of us know life has it's ups and downs; maybe you’re having a bad moment, or bad day, or even a bad week…

Sometimes I find myself in a desperate need of a good pep talk. Yes, pep talks from other people are great but I think the most important thing to do during tough times/moments, is to give yourself your own pep talk. It can be easy to get discouraged and to talk negatively to yourself but that’s why it's important to know how to have your own back when tough moments or events strike. I have a few things I like to do to help pick me back up and get back into a positive mind set. The first thing I like to do is set aside some quiet time to clear my head. Whether that means hitting the gym, or going for a walk or drive alone. I also try to remember to be kind to myself and not so hard on myself. I know many people feel like there's always a constant pressure to be the best and on top of it all, but the truth is we are all human which means we aren't perfect. We all have to remember to give ourselves moments where we can be pampered and relax a bit, so I try to take a day off every week to enjoy something I like doing. And of course the last thing I like to do is give myself a little bit of a positive pep talk. I remind myself that this is life and like I mentioned life has its up and downs but at the end of the day things always workout the way they should. I remind myself everything I’ve been through and how it’s only made me stronger as a person!
 

I think there's a lot of power in positive words and being thankful for the good things in life instead of always speaking negatively and searching for something better.

Have a great day!
Stephanie xo

Must Have: Transparent Detail Lace Top

Shop this top HERE

 

Hey lovelies! Happy Thursday :) Just thought I'd do a quick post on this beautiful lace top I picked up the other day from Zara. I have been eyeing this top for over a week...I finally broke and purchased it. I love everything about it, the colour (maroon) is perfect for transitioning into fall and still okay to wear right now especially because soon the mornings and nights are going to get a little cooler. If you haven't noticed lace is huge right now and becoming more popular for fall and winter looks. This top does fit a little big so I suggest buying one size smaller. I've put the link where you can purchase under the picture above! I've also link other lace tops from Zara's that I am absolutely in love with and that are on my wish list!

 

 

Shop this top HERE (also comes in Green)

 

 

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Hugs:

Stephanie xx

Honey, It's Time To Declutter...

Spending the weeekend with this cutiepie and the rest of my family by the pool.

I find the older I get the more I am realizing what and more specifically who is most important to me in life. I'm the type of person that will go out of my way for pretty much anyone, not because I feel I have to but because I love helping people. Some have told me that I have the 'Mother Theresa syndrome' meaning I try to help everyone I can and I try to fix everyone's problems. In doing this my own happiness takes a little bit of a back seat and I don't necessarily do what’s best for me. I also think that my focus tends to sway away from those who actually deserve it, and instead is given to those who don't necessarily deserve it. I guess what I'm trying to get at in this post, is that sometimes you need to take a step back and look at the big picture and analyze if who and what you are focusing on is actually beneficial for you. I find taking the time to break it down really helps in doing this. Over the past month I have really taken the time to think about it, I like to call it 'decluttering my life'. By decluttering I don't mean spring cleaning (unless this helps you then go for it!)…What I mean is removing the relationships from your life that regularly drag you down or damage you and focus more on those healthy relationships by keeping in touch with those people. What I really found was in order to declutter relationships, I had to put full closure to the relationships that are no longer in my life. It's such a breath of fresh air knowing that I've managed to do this, as hard as it is!

 

Is it time for you to 'declutter'?

 Hugs;

Stephanie xo

FOR THE LOVE OF BOW TIES

 SHOP: TUCSON BAG 

 

Hey loves, I have been keeping an eye out for a bow tie bag similar to mine, as I have had a TON of people ask me where I got it. I finally found it at the exact same place I got this one...ALDO to the rescue!! It comes in both black and this 'Bone' colour as they like to call it. I will definitely be getting the Bone colour one ASAP!

 

Hugs;

Stephanie xx

Business Attire

SHOP THIS LOOK: Nude Tank (I have these in like every colour!), Blazer (Similar), Pencil Skirt (also somes in a pretty pink colour), Shoes (on sale $26.99), Kinsley Armelle Bracelet ONE|TWO Both on sale for under $20!!! (Use PROMO code BEYOUTIFULSTEPH15OFF for an extra discount), Cross bag (Currently my favourite bag and on sale for $20!)

There is something about business attire that I love! I'm not sure if it's because I secretly love to learn about business and always dream of becoming an entrpreneur, or the fact that I have an obession with the show suits and I am double crushing on Harvery Spectar and Mike Ross, who BTW dress on point! The down side of business attire is that I often find it uncomfortable, and if you know me then you know I am all about comfort! I have a desk job so sitting all day in clothes that aren't comfortable is super irritating; I like to feel comfotabel at all times. I think a lot of clothing companies are starting to realize this and therefore are using materials that have more stretch to them (ha-liloo-yahh!). I get asked a lot where I shop for my work clothes and to be honest I don't have any specific place but here are my top 4 choices:

1. RW&CO- This would probably be my number one choice becasue they have such classy pieces and the quality is great.

2. Dynamite- I love dynamite because they are reasonable price wise and they are always up-to-date with new style trends.

3. Zara- What I love about Zara's is their stuff is very different. I find when I'm looking for something unique yet chic I can always find it here.

4. Aritzia- Okay lets be honest Artizia can be slighlty expensive BUT their pieces last FORVER and are so versatile. There isn't one piece that I have bought from here and havne't got my money's worth. I have shirts from 5 years ago and till this stay still wear constantly.

Stephanie xo

Charming Charlie Accessories All under $50

 Clover Turnlock Wallet, IPHONE Case, Eiffel Tower Watch, Tassel Booties, Modern Fringe Pendant, Lolita Leopard Purse, Wide Brim Floppy Hat, Love and a dog mug, Tassel Charger Keychain (How cool id this!?),  Standout Round Sunnies,  Texture Two-Tone Circle Earrings, Pave Ring Earings

 

Hello Lovelies! I hope everyone is having a fabulous week! I have recently been obsessed with accessories, espcially because one of my favourite color/print combo is currently trending into fall. I literally gravitate towards anything leopard, black and red. I feel like it's just one of those trend that never goes out of style and i find it to be so classy when worn/paired properly. Here are some of my favourite finds from Charming Charlie. They are all on my wish list and lets be honest how can you go wrong with everything under $50.00!? Besides being super affordable, what I love most about Charming Charlie is they make it easy to shop because it's all colour cordinated; both online and in store.

 

Hugs,

Stephanie xx

Act like a lady, Dress like a boss

If there is one thing I'm a sucker for it's a cute and sophisticated work/business dress. When I put on a dress that's classy I literally feel like I can take on the world! Here are some of my fave's and that are currently on my wish list! They are great especially with transitioning into fall :)

Ruffle sleeve dress - The prints and ruffles are so feminine

Bengaline Boat Neck Shift Dress - Perfect to transition into fall

Bengaline Split V-Neck Dress- Everything about this dress is perfect!!

Lace dress with collar - Can this dress get any cuter?! 

Mock Neck Sheath Dress - My favourite colour combo
 

Hugs;

Stephanie xx

Love- When you sit beside someone doing nothing, yet you feel perfectly happy...

 

SHOP THIS LOOK: TOP (NEW FAVE!), JEGGINGS (SIMILAR), SHOES (SIMILAR), KINSLEY ARMELLE BRACELETS (USE PROMO CODE BEYOUTIFULSTEPH15OFF) ONE|TWO|THREE, WATCH, PURSE (SIMILAR)

 

Love is when you sit beside someone doing nothing, yet you feel perfectly happy...

 

By no means am I an expert on love, but I have had my heart broken a couple times and there are things that I've learned each time. I feel like I've come to appreciate the word 'love' a little more and I've come to realize that when referring to people the word 'love' shouldn't just be tossed around in conversations carelessly. I’ve learned that love is an immeasurable force that we can’t force. I do believe that love sometimes makes you do things that you thought once you might not ever do (whether good or bad) Putting negative aspects aside, what does it really mean to me love someone?

 Like i said I'm no expert but this is what love means to me...

1. Love means accepting a person as a whole; for all their traits whether good or bad.

2. Love means supporting this person in anything and everything, even when you may not completely agree (when I say everything and anything I mean things that are realistic and legal. This does not include any sort of criminal act...I think you know where I'm going with this)

3. Love means being selfless. When you love someone it's not just about you anymore, you have to think about the other person and take them into consideration. This sometimes requires sacraficing other things in order to be with this person.

4. Love means being loyal. Not looking for something better or seeing what's out there. It means comitting to that person because you know they complete you (how cliche of me to say lol).

5. Love means doing things for a person just to make them smile. Not becasue you feel you have to but becasue you genuinly want to.

6. Love means going out of your way for that person even if it's not convinient for you. Love isn't always convinient but if you do truly care about a person you will make it convenient.

7. Love means being able to be yourself around that person with no shame.

8.  Love sometimes means waiting a long time for that person. Waiting for the timing to be right for the both of you.

9. Love means not needing constant contact, in person or via text, to feel secure. It means trusting them in every way possible.

10. Sometimes love means disappointment. It means broken hearts and red teary eyes. It means taking a shot on someone and being let down. It means learning the hard way that you can’t make someone love you.

 

11. Love means sticking by that persons side no matter how tough or stressful life gets, whether the issue has something to do with your relationship or whether its something outside the relationship.

 

What love doesn't mean is being a replica of another person, but rather being like a puzzle piece that fits perfectly together, because your traits complement each other to create better versions of you both.

 

What does love mean to you?

 

Stephanie xo